Swap-bot Time: July 22, 2024 3:39 am


Date Joined: April 15, 2024
Last Online: July 21, 2024
Birthday: May 2
Country: United States

About Me


My name is Kay, and I am so excited to start entering my first swaps! :) I originally found this website from a Postcrossing forum comment, I am hoping to be able to send out more happy mail this way.

I live in the desert with my husband and our rescue pup. I am a homebody and I love to watch movies, read, play video games, and to make paper crafts and mail to share with others! I love collecting stickers and washi tape and sending them out to people who will find joy in them like me!

Favorite Hobbies

I really enjoy paper crafts of all kinds, but here are the pastimes that I participate in the most:

  • Postcrossing
  • Collage + Abstract Art
  • Bullet Journaling
  • Reading
  • Thrifting
  • Making Zines
  • Revisiting Favorite Movies + TV Series
  • Gaming (currently playing Elden Ring)
  • Spending Time with Loved Ones
  • Sending Happy Mail in General :)

Favorite Music

I love most genres of music, but especially Christmas/Winter Holiday Music and World Music in any language! I love discovering new songs and unknown bands, if you have any to share with me I would love to hear about them!

Here are some of my favorite bands:

  • Queen
  • Jim Croce
  • Roy Orbison
  • Journey
  • Bon Iver
  • Iron & Wine
  • Chappell Roan
  • Olivia Rodrigo
  • Taylor Swift

Favorite Books

I read lots of books different books, and I am always looking for a great recommendation if you can share one!

Here are some of my most beloved books:

  • 'White Oleander' by Janet Fitch
  • 'She's Come Undone' by Wally Lamb
  • 'Caramelo' by Sandra Cisneros
  • 'The Neverending Story' by Michael Ende
  • 'Alive at the End of the World' by Saeed Jones
  • 'Nickel and Dimed' by Barbara Ehrenreich

Alphabet Wish List/Likes

I am not too particular about the mail that I receive, I just appreciate you sending me something! :) If you're looking for inspiration though, here are a few ideas:

A- Animals, Autumn, Art, Artist Trading Cards, Antique, Advice, Animal Crossing, Academia.

B- Birds, Book Recommendations, Bookmarks, Blue, Breakfast themed, Bullet Journal, Bats.

C- Christmas (all year round!), Cute, Colorful, Cowboy/girl, Cinnamoroll, Calico Critters, Capybaras, Coloring Pages, Chococat, Clay Sculptures, Chibi, Crows, Cottagecore, Collage.

D- Drawings, Dogs, Decorated Envelopes, Desert, Darwin, Donuts, DAISO, Deer, Dark Academia.

E- Envelopes, Evolutionary Theory, Easter (secular).

F- Ferrets, Felt, Flowers, Food-themed (stickers/stationary okay, but please save any food items for someone who will appreciate them more!) Forest, Floral.

G- Garden, Greeting Cards, Gudetama, Guatemala.

H- Halloween (all year round!), Hello Kitty, Handmade, Hummingbirds, 'Happy Birthday' themed items (I use them for swaps year-round), Horror, Holidays.

I- International, Illustrations, Introvert Culture.

J- Junk Journal Materials.

K- Keychains, Kawaii, Kirby.

L- Las Vegas, LGBTQ+, Letters, Libraries.

M- Maps, Music Recommendations, Magazine Clippings, My Melody.

N- Nature, Nevada, Needlefelt.

O- Ornaments, Ocean, Our Flag Means Death.

P- Playlists, Pokemon, Poetry (self written or by someone else is fine!), Pixel Art, Purple, Pastries, Postcards, Pusheen, Pizza, Peaches, Paper Dolls, Photography, Psychology, Pop-Tarts, Pompompurin.

Q- Quotes.

R- Recipes, Reading, Rubber Stamps, Return Address Labels.

S- Stickers, Stamps (used or new), Spooky, Spiders, Spring, Summer, Stationary, Sanrio, Studio Ghibli, Snoopy, Snapdragons (flower), Sushi, Stained Glass, Sloths, Seasonal, Scrapbooking.

T- Trinkets, Tarantulas, Tea-themed (stickers/stationary okay, but please save any tea bags for someone who will appreciate them more!) Typed messages are welcome, Taylor Swift, Taurus.

U- Umbrella/rain themed, Universe/Galaxy/Outer Space.

V- Vintage.

W- Washi Tapes, Washi Stickers, Winter, Western, Wolves.

X- Xeroxed pictures/photos/images.

Y- You! Anything that you make or send me I am sure to love :)

Z- Zines, Zoology, Zelda (BOTW + TOTK).


These are things that would be better to save for someone who will appreciate them more:

  • Teacher Stickers / Planner Stickers
  • Tea [If I am in a swap that requires tea, I will be happy to send it out but please save yours for someone who will enjoy it more! I won't rate down for not sending me teas :) ]
  • Coffee or Food
  • Coins or Bank Notes
  • Religious Notes or Items


Comment: Cute cute cute! Thank you so much!
MushroomHuntingCrow rated for My Playlist in June 2024 on Jul 19, 2024
Comment: Thank you for sharing your playlist! I love beabadoobee and I am looking forward to checking out the rest of your music :)
greenbug728 rated for Greeting Card with Stickers #2 on Jul 17, 2024
Comment: I LOVE your beautiful card and the way you decorated it with the different washi tapes is awesome!! I also really loved all the amazing stickers you sent too. They are all perfect! Thank you so much! Have a great week! :)
ariestess rated for My Playlist in June 2024 on Jul 17, 2024
Comment: Thanks for sharing! Some stuff I know & some to check out in Spotify!
clockwork17 rated for Greeting Card with Stickers #2 on Jul 16, 2024
Comment: Hi Kay! Thank you for the gorgeous stickers and card! Sunny is doing well :). I haven't listened to too much prog rock until now, so thank you as well for the band recs :) - Amy
LyrasHope rated for My Playlist in June 2024 on Jul 15, 2024
Comment: I really enjoyed listening to your list - thank you!!
SkaGirl rated for My Playlist in June 2024 on Jul 14, 2024
Comment: Thank you! :)
acolytedog rated for My Playlist in June 2024 on Jul 14, 2024
Comment: thank you!! i LOVE apple by charli xcx 🍏
Comment: Thanks for the cute stuff! 💖
Comment: Thank you! :)
Comment: Thank you and happy belated birthday!
Comment: That little duck at the end of the email was so cute! Be Sweet made me wanna dance.
Comment: Hi Kay:-) Thank you for sharing your music with me:-) I added them to my Playlist to mix it up.
Comment: thanks for the great stickers and for the post cards.
Comment: Thanks for sharing!
Comment: Kay! Thank you for the fun goodies and I'm in love with the Owl sticker.
nylelyn23 rated for 📚Bookmark and a PC📚 on Jun 3, 2024
Comment: Hi! Thank you for sending me more than 1 pc! Unfortunately the rain smudged my address and the content of your postcard almost entirely, including transferring the ink to the Italian PC. But, I could still read your note and save the remaining 2 PCs. thank you so much!
Comment: Hi Kay and thank you for your lost. I'd not heard of the majority of the songs in your list so that was a new and fun listen for me :) I now can't get Easy Lover out of my mind though! I'd not heard that in such a long time! Take care, Deb
klover rated for TGIF Weekend Notecard #394 on May 25, 2024
Comment: Hi Kay:-) The Hallmark vintage stationary is very pretty. It sounds like you had a busy weekend moving, unpacking, etc. Owen Wilson is a great actor; Midnight In Paris is a fun movie:-). Can you imagine living in Paris during that Era? So many great artists and writers! I hope you are getting settled in and have an awesome weekend!
Comment: I love it! Great job on your first swap. Thank you for personalizing it. I can't wait to try the recipe!

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