Date Joined: April 17, 2019
Last Online: March 22, 2023
Birthday: March 17
Country: United States
My Amazon Wishlist
My Etsy Faves
My Flickr Photos
T.O.U.G.H. Swappers Group
The ABC Group
This is my actual mailbox. I use it to send swaps on-time, if not early.
Partner/Coordinator Communication will take place should this status change for any reason.
Missing Mail? Please direct message me before rating. I keep a photo-log of swap contents and packaging.
Spoiler-Alert: My Flickr account often has photographs of swaps I’ve sent.
Postage Due? I have a postal scale. 😁 But, if this happens to you please email a picture of your receipt to me and I will promptly reimburse via PayPal or Zelle. Direct-message me here, and I will respond with my email Or, if you prefer unused USPS postage stamps, I’m also happy to mail you those in-kind. I do apologize for any inconvenience.
Allergy Alert: My home is smoke-free but pet-friendly. I also shed a lot, due to Hashimoto’s. I apologize ahead of time if there’s a hair stuck in packing tape.😆
Welcome: Reliable, honest swappers for private swaps! I have an assortment of items to share with people who appreciate and can use them!
Please scroll down to “Do Not Send” section if you’re just here to review my 🛑 Dislikes list. 🛑 Thank you for your consideration!
3/11/2023 Our eldest daughter just told us we’re going to be grandparents in July! I’m so thrilled to be a grandma to a human for the first time!! We’re planning a trip to NC where they live soon, so I will not be swapping much until we’re back.
My name is 🎵Harmony Joy🎶 (she/her) I like both my first and middle name as a reminder of who I'm called to be. Others refer to me as either "Harmony", "Joy", "Harmony-Joy" or 🍪"Cookie" (because of my last name) - call me whichever you please, just don't call me late for dinner! 🤣
My name is musically-inspired because both of my biological parents are hippies. I am a Berkeley ☮️-born and Nor-Cal foster-system raised “love-child”, who currently lives on the other side of the nation. I met & married my husband in the Sunshine State, while we were both active-duty Air Force.
💞Together, we have three children (2 daughters, 1 son). Being “Mama Bear” is my favorite part of life, and I literally get more excited about 💙 Mother’s Day than my own birthday!🎁 The title also includes all my animals (past & present). 😉
🐾 At the moment, our fur-family consists of 3 feline & 3 canine rescues: Kyna (a Carolina Dog) and Ella (a Great Dane & Pointer mix), plus a Pit-bull "grand-dog" named Luna, two tortoiseshell shorthair grand-mollies named Lily and Piper. Theo, is my ginger tabby grand-gib.🐾 🐈
Perhaps you can surmise that I've always really enjoyed my animals. I think my pets help me cope with “people problems” better. 😉
Whether finned, feathered, furry, or humanoid animals, my ohana really is “my whole world” 💕🌎 And I believe that family is who we make it (beyond DNA).
I’m proud to be a Mama Bear! 🐻🧸 Which is just one more reason why Bettie White will always be my favorite Golden Girl! R.I.P.
My family says I’m “the jack of all trades, master of some.” 😆 I’m simply never bored! 🎨
So, besides my “V.I.Peeps”, I also enjoy many Hobbies:
(I own a Gemini Pro, Sizzix Big Shot Plus, Portable Tim Holtz Sidekick, & Cricut Explore Air2)
(outdoor) Fishing, Hiking, Horseback Riding, Hula Dancing, Kayaking, Rollerblading, Shooting, Stand-up Paddle Boarding, Swimming, and Shopping.
I 💙 crafting! I like to try new techniques too. My new-found interests are "deco" booklets, ATCs & APCs. However, my portfolio is varied from fiber arts and beading to woodwork and pyrography. My style often varies and is "moody" because I tend to make what I feel. Most of the time I embrace the mixed-media, distressed looks of inky grunge and painterly splatters. However, I enjoy the beauty of clean-and-simple (CAS) designs too.
Due to health issues, I have experienced some hand tremors and vision problems. These are mostly under control now that I got new glasses and my thyroid medication is optimized. But I'd still like swappers to be aware that there are days that I cannot art as well as others. I will always give projects my best efforts and take my time though. This means that I may send swaps very close to their deadline date. It also means that I’m learning to accept imperfections as beautiful, unique qualities and adapt my methods in accordance with the "Wabi-sabi” way. I truly appreciate your patience and understanding. 😊
My current collections are: Cartophilia (trading cards) to include ATC/APC and the 7-of-❤️’s playing card (in all sizes & shapes)
I’ve started collecting the 7-of-clubs Poker Cards to use for a memorial project in honor of my late G’Mom Cook 3/17/19-1/1/20. The club looks like a shamrock ☘️ and they always remind me of her! We would celebrate our birthdays together with my mother every year, but since she’s passed and the pandemic began, that tradition stopped. I’m starting a new tradition of my own now, using these poker cards to record a fond memory, so I can dwell on the gains she gave me rather than the loss of her being elsewhere.💚
I enjoy listening to audiobooks & many different genres of music. My go-to’s are usually classic rock & reggae. I have an all-in-one Radio/CD/Cassette/Record Player in my craft-room, and I 🖤 my vintage vinyl!
I am most comfortable at the ocean where I can lose all sense of time hunting for sea glass, heart-shaped rocks, and tiny shells to use in my crafts. I also enjoy fishing, but this ol' gal ain't cut out for boats! I've got a fair pair of fins 🧜🏽♀️, but no "sea legs!" 🤢
Since this is the "About Me" section of my profile, I think it's important for others to know that I am a frank, what-you-see-is-what-you-get, protective person who does not like drama. I don't look for them, but when they find me, you can guarantee that I won't run from a fight. And if a flame starts spreading like wildfire, I'm going to do what's in my power to make sure the innocent are safe before I go run for help. I've been on this site long enough to know not everyone here has good intentions. I despise trolls (always have, even when they were a rainbow haired trend in the 90's) and people who instigate, trick, or bully others are the root of all evil in my book. I'm also a Pisces and my discernment/perception of people has been accurate more often than not throughout life. I'm a hugger (which is important to understand if you ever meet me in person) and a defender of the underdog (which you outta know if you're the bullying kind).
There are many factors that can contribute to suicide risk. An estimated 90% of people who take their own lives have a health condition that is mistreated or undiagnosed. A suicide attempt is a sign that someone is in crisis. It should always be taken seriously and never ignored. That is why I will not tolerate cyberbullying.
Known offenders are forever restricted from participation in my groups/swaps.
Will you take the LifeGuard pledge?
FLORIDA hurricane season is from June 1st through November 15th
As a swap coordinator, I often "close" my swaps a day earlier than the posted date because I am a "night-owl" and do most my work while others are asleep! :-)
Posted swaps that are left without any interest for 72 hours, might be deleted to perhaps repost at a different time.
Sometimes my swaps have a Sunday send-by date even though there’s no postal service because swaps can still be dropped off in the “blue”(outgoing) mail boxes. I often drop by the P.O. on my way to do other errands on Sundays, and once that swap leaves my possession it’s marked as sent!
Similarly, if I’ve put a swap in my street-side mailbox for outgoing pickup, but the mail carrier doesn’t come, then I will unmark it from being sent that day. I do this because my mailbox is not water-tight and items left overnight can become damp, warped, and unsealed if I don’t bring them back inside the house. Florida is VERY HUMID and we get a lot of afternoon showers. This is also why there may be a lot of clear packing tape on outer swap packaging.
I also live on a mail carrier route that’s considered the ’last stop’ so, if it’s too dark outside for safe deliveries, or the delivery person feels unwell then my mail doesn’t get delivered/picked up that day. Thankfully, this has only happened a couple times since I’ve lived here. I truly appreciate our postal workers and try my best to make their jobs as pleasant as possible.
Since the pandemic began, we’ve had 14 different USPS personnel doing our deliveries. I’m beginning to think that our route is just going to whomever gets the time that day…🤷🏽♀️
My servicing mail station is the USPS Apollo Annex of Melbourne, Florida (Phone: (321) 255-7589).
Date extensions will be granted on a case-by-case basis for reliable swappers who communicate with me. I am a coordinator that understands real life happens outside of this ‘bot. 💙 I also understand that real life circumstances can change in an instant, and this site is not priorty-one when life happens. But, I don’t think it should be months to log back in and at least post a note on your profile so your swap partners or coordinators don’t worry.
I only coordinate swaps that I am willing/able to angel. I also make a sincere effort to vet each participant before assigning partners.
If you end up needing a swap angel'd, please direct message me after you’ve contacted your partner.
IMPORTANT: When I angel a swap it is strictly to ensure each participant receives something in-kind in return. It is not in any way meant to pressure someone into rating another individual. How someone does their rating is up to that swapper, and none of my business. Even if I ask for kindness and understanding of another person's extenuating circumstances, I will never tell anyone how to rate another person.
Hearts here don’t cost me anything! I look for reasons to give them when I rate. They’re not associated with extras that you throw in the envelope (I don’t want/need random toss-ins). And even though it’s fun to see in the mailbox, I don’t rate based on how the package is decorated either (there are Postmaster’s who strictly despise sticky embellishments on mail because it gums up their machinery. Every Postmaster is different and can interpret postal regulations accordingly).
I also don’t over-analyze the giving of a heart by withholding them on type-1 or type-2 swaps (a postcard can feel “extra special” to the recipient even though it’s not technically a “package”! The point is: when your swap shows me that you thought about me, I’m happy to share a heart!
I don’t give everyone hearts nor expect everyone to give them to me. A heart means extra effort or resources were involved with a swap. That’s why I will no longer heart a swap sent completely blind unless it’s specifically meant to be and named a blind swap. Any swap that’s supposed to be profile-inspired needs to have my name inside it somewhere, at the very least.
(because thieves swap there)
It’s taken me almost two years to decide to post anything negative about a swapper, but I believe others should be warned. One swapper in particular, @Allegrae has stolen ATC, postage, and heirlooms from me. I was gullible and trusted her ratings. I also read that she liked buttons and thought it would be nice to collaborate with her on some Scottish themed ATC (my Flickr page linked above has pictures of these cards). So, for a swap I sent her heirloom Scottie buttons, that I’d attached to strips of genuine Harris Tweed. I’d also included two embroidered original Harris Tweed labels with an S.A.S.E. so she could easily return one ATC to me after making her additions. She rated me with a heart-five and also messaged me which confirmed receipt of these items. But due to her family issues, circa September 2021, she asked for extra time to work on the cards and promised to return one completed ATC using the button, tweed, and label. Nothing ever came. I’ve messaged her for over a year to ask her to at least return my items even if she doesn’t complete an ATC. She continually ignores my messages and has still returned nothing to me. I know she coordinates countless ATC Bag swaps and I wonder how many others might’ve had their cards go missing. I know she’s not the only one who steals here. But when I read on her profile how she feels so fondly for her grandparents, it disgusts me that she’s disrespecting me and my late grandmother. I was very close to her because she’s responsible for most of my upbringing. She even took a job working for my first foster family after my grandfather passed away just so she could spend time with me and my siblings more. G’mom was my person. And I cherish everything that I have left from our times together - even the smallest buttons!
To maximize successful happy mail deliveries (and minimize waste), my swap participation/coordination will remain selective and regionally restricted until further notice.
I will also be using Pirate Ship to mail most of my packages because their rates are cheap-aaar! 🏴☠️
I’ve become a full-time college student again (my 5th degree), while still homeschooling my teenage son, so I will log in here regularly, but my swap coordination will be minimal. I’m also still trying to get my craft-room back in working order! September 2021 brought us broken pipes in the walls which we had repaired via insurance, but then our roof leaked and flooded the front bedroom before Christmas 2022. My house is partly stacked & packed up and/or in a storage unit up the street while we go through the slow process of having the roof repaired and front room walls redone. All this to say that I have a lot of hidden treasures to create with that are too difficult to dig for and my time-intensive swaps are on pause. I’m fortunate to have a patient husband who let’s me do my little deco/ATC swaps at the kitchen table as long as my mess stays on one half of the table and still gives him space to eat!😆
I believe it’s also worth mentioning that Int'l postal worker, railroad, and sanitation worker strikes will continue to disrupt courier mail services (esp. in parts of Asia, Europe, and Australia). So, I’m sticking to swaps that are in USA/CAN for these reasons.
Want to make sure the domestic mail that you’re sending is processed quickly and efficiently? Then always use the standardized street address with ZIP+4® format!
Did you know USPS doesn’t want any punctuation in delivery addresses? In fact, all letters are to be in CAPS-lock and black ink on a white/light background.
By addressing mail appropriately you’ll ensure that they are processed smoothly by mail sorting equipment. Using the standardized address with ZIP+4® format alleviates possible delays from manual handling.
Try this USPS lookup tool to find the standardized address and ZIP+4® you’re mailing to:
📩Postage & Postcards✉ - Handmade postcards are always welcome. But I really do not want anymore random blank postcards please. I am technically trying to get rid of the blank ones that I have because the USPS does not prioritize these anymore, so they get lost more than mail in envelopes with return addresses because there's no accountability for them.
❤️🧡💛💚💙💗💜💗🤎🤍🖤💝 I heart art!
Please share your PC collage, coloring, drawing, graphic design, painting, or photography. I also like receiving “print-on-demand” PCs by Zazzle, Red Bubble, Café Press, Society 6, etc. If it’s a postcard that you think I will enjoy (even if the swap says "No"), mail it and let me know why! I promise I’ll never rate down for thoughtful intentions!
Please add a cookie to the back of my postcard🍪🥠
*I also ask that my postcards please be sent ✏written🖊 on, but in an✉ envelope🌎 (if the swap allows a choice). The envelope (or clear sleeve) simply protects the image on the postcard from being smudged or torn by the USPS machinery (and they seem to be arriving damaged more recently).
If anyone happens across a “yellow pages” phone book from the Bay Area, California circa 1977-78 I’m trying to find evidence of a plant shop called “Heavenly Houseplants & Other Divine Gifts” that was off Telegraph Avenue.
🤙🏽 Mahalo nui loa! 🤙🏽
Favorite Snail Mail Supplies Online
A: Autobots, Avengers, Avatar-The Last Airbender, ATCs & APCs
(My Fave ATC/APC Themes are: Trees, Star Wars, Marvel/Disney FanArt, Vintage Postage Stamps & Mail/post-boxes, Cookie Monster, Harmony Bear, Cool Phoenixes, Giant Pandas, Polar Bear, ☘️Shamrocks/Clovers🍀, Oceania, Mermaids, Orca Whales & Sea Turtles!)
B: Big Hunk Candy Bars, Bears esp. Giant Panda & Polar 🐼,💙 Blue (esp. cobalt), Blue Cats & Bald 🦅 Eagles
C: Chick-O-Stick Coconut Candy, Celtic Heritage, Clogging, 🍀Clovers, Cinnamon Chai, Chewbacca, Classic Mickey Mouse & Cookie Monster
D: Daffodils, Dancing, Drum Circles/Lines🥁, Dr. Seuss & Decoupage
E: Eighties (era) Ephemera, Elvis Presley, Eeyore & Emerald Green💚
F: Friesian Horses, Fern Fronds, Fleur-de-lis⚜️ & Frangipani (plumeria flowers)
G: Groot, Guitar Picks, Golden State Warriors, The Goonies & GryffinPuffs (I’m a Hogwart House Hybrid!) 😉
H: 🐾 Husky Dogs 🐾, 💕Heart-shapes, Hibiscus & Harmony Bear (purple Care Bear w/flower belly badge)
I: Ireland, Icebergs & Incredible Hulk
J: *Jordan Almonds, Jade Green 💚, 🏀Jordan #23 & ⚾️Jeter #2
K: Koi Fish, Kiwi 🥝 Fruit, Kliban’s Cat & Koru Loops
L: Leaf Rubbings, Lucille Ball, LEGOs, Luke & Leia Skywalker
M: Marilyn Monroe, Mandalorian, Music Notes, Mulan, Moana, Merida, Monarch Butterflies 🦋 & Maple syrup/leaves 🍁
N: Narnia Chronicles & Notes w/my Name on them 😉
O: Orcas, 🦦 Otters, Origami & Optimus Prime
P: Panda, Polar, Pooh, and Paddington Bears, Princess Bride, Ponyo, & Pansies
Q: Quilled paper, Quail (above) & Quotes (I collect positivity to refer to when I need a morale boost!)
R: Roasted Almonds, ROYGBIV (spectrums-in-nature), Rocking Horses, R2-D2 & Redwood Trees
S: Simply Cheetos White Cheddar Puffs or Snyder’s of Hanover GF Pretzel Snacks, ☘️ Shamrocks, Strawberries 🍓, Smokey the Bear, Sheet Music🎼 & Sea Turtles (the marine reptiles w/flippers)
T: Tigger, Totoro, Tie-dye, Textiles, Tweeds, Tartan & Tribal Tattoos
V: VW buses, Valkyrie & Vintage
W: Walkers Shortbread Cookies, Winter Soldier, Wolves, Wicket the Ewok & Wyland Art
X: Xylophones, X-rays, X-men & “X” marks the spot (a pirate’s life for me!) ☠️
Y: ☯️ Yin-Yang Symbols (they remind me of balance), Yoda, Yaddle & The Child (Grogu)
Z: Zebras 🦓, Zines & Zentangle
Here’s a short list of my top ten’s (in no particular order):
🚫 Soy Anything (I'm allergic)
🚫 Religious Propaganda (I dispose of dogmas)
🚫 Claymation (plasticine stop-motion) Characters
🚫 Aliens, Albino Animal Imagery
🚫 Dolls, Zettiology Creatures, Zombies
🚫 Monkeys, Gorillas, Baboons
🚫 Scorpions, Spiders, Snakes
🚫 Fragrances, Cosmetics, Jewelry
Please also avoid sending clothing. I have been getting socks in Christmas swaps lately and it's disheartening because I cannot wear any of them. Think Hobbit Feet! The tiny human socks all get donated to charity for the homeless in our area though (so no waste there).
Some swappers enjoy having a list to “shop” from, while others feel squelched by too many ideas. For this reason, I have tried to create “harmony” in my profile by listing some of the things I like. This is not an extensive listing, 😉 so swap partners can breathe easy because my default mode is to find the good in whatever is mailed my way. 😉 😃 😊
Thank YOU for thinking of me!
|Type 1||Type 2||Type 3||Uncategorized|
Happy (belated) birthday! I hope you had fun!
Hello, my friend - I want to THANK YOU for the wonderful collage images you've sent me (rec'd Mar 16); I'm going to have a lot of fun using these!
Thank you for a lovely forest addition to the ABC: Muti-media Collaboration Swap. I love these swaps—so much fun!
Happy Birthday Month from all of your swapping friends at the WIYM Group!! We hope you enjoy your special day. May all of your Birthday wishes come true and your New Year be all you hope it can be and more!! 🎂🎂🎂💌🎂🎂🎂 We miss you, sweet friend!! 🍪🍪🍪
What you did with the Scottie Dog was amazing! Oh man! That upped the game! TY!
Thanks so much for the beautifully finished ABC: Sender’s Choice #24 ATC! I like that you used an iridescent purple for the flower. And the mushrooms to admire! lol
ALL ABOUT THE WISHES -- Wow wow WWWOOOWWWW! A gazillion thanks for the tag inserts! So many inserts. Thanks so much!
Thank you so much for my return address label gift for my member participation in the ABC's group!! I definitely needed them!
Thank you so much Harmony for the address labels. You are so giving in nature and I appreciate you! Aloha
Hello Harmony! I received my participation stickers today! I love the lil Ernie the Envelope! As usual you are very kind & generous! TY.