Swap-bot Time: August 13, 2022 8:48 am


Date Joined: October 11, 2018
Last Online: August 13, 2022
Birthday: May 4
Country: United States
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Last Updated 1 AUGUST 2022

Hello, welcome to my profile! I am so glad you stopped by! My name is ROOK(she/they)

I am autistic and live and work in Hollywood. I am married (9/13/2019) to my best friend and we have a chihuahua named Lu (short for Luna).

My husband and I live a cozy minimalist lifestyle. It isn’t that I don’t like stuff (I mean look at my lists below), I just have to control my environment more, as it becomes overwhelming - we have a small space to share. I try to only create and join swaps with things I would enjoy bringing into my home. There are exceptions of course, and if I receive anything I do not find useful, I donate or pass it on. I will always leave feedback according to guidelines regardless.

That being said…my house is very eclectic. It’s a little bit shabby chic meets Marie Antoinette, a little bit industrial and a little bit whimsical. But mostly cozy. Lots of soft cuddly vibes.


If it isn’t difficult for you it would help me if you could write bigger than normal or possibly type (14pt font). My eyes are failing me, I have RP, and they have gotten worse over the past few months. I have lost all periphery, it’s a lot like looking thru a kitchen roll tube. This is all new for me, and it is hard to give up my independence or ask for help. I am not looking for sympathy I am just asking that you write bigger. I just love the swapbot community.


  • Postalettes - either with a letter or blank ones I can send
  • Hanayama Puzzles - I am obsessed!
  • Anything from or inspired by my Amazon or Etsy wishlists above
  • Tchochkes with EVAN on them
  • Disney Trading Pins
  • Shabby Chic/vintage ribbons and lace
  • Jellycat stuffed animals…especially if they are white! (I collect these)
  • Gift cards: Starbucks, Target, Daiso, EBay, Amazon, Dollar Tree
  • Fancy hair doo-dads
  • Forever stamps, International Stamps and Postcard Stamps jellyfish stamps
  • BIG ASK : As I said, I have lost most of my vision in recent months. I am finally accepting this fact. Now I am needing a lot more tools to help me with day to day tasks and living. I have added quite a few things my therapist suggested to my Amazon Wishlist. If anyone can help get these tools I would be very grateful. I have already started chipping away at it, but it is all a bit overwhelming.

Things that make me happy

  • LoveShackFancy I am OBSESSED with this brand! It is similar to Shabby Chic (Rachel Ashwell) of the 2000s. I love this whole aesthetic. Vintage florals, lots of white, soft cottons, linen and lace, milk glass, aqua colored lido glass
  • To go with that our home is definitely Còsgach! Which is the Scottish way of Hygge. Like I said above COZY. Plus we love all things Scot!
  • Movies - I love the whole process of making movies it’s also my job. Some of my favorite movies are Everything Everywhere All at Once, Legally Blonde, Penelope, Practical Magic, Marie Antoinette, Meet Joe Black, Tomorrowland I also LOVE Audrey Hepburn!
  • One of my special interest right now is Jellyfish I love everything about them!! books, photos, collectibles, toys….anything with jellyfish on them!
  • Disneyland - I go about once a week, when work allows. It is also a special interest, but it is mainly the history of the park. I love any Disney ephemera (old, new, used, a corner….anything)!! I do like Disney in general, so I will never say no anything Disney. My favorite characters are Snow White, Merida, Elsa (specifically Frozen 2), Mabel Pines, Captain Marvel, and of course Mickey Mouse and the Fab Five!
  • Archery - I love archery! I shoot as often as I can. I am hoping to compete someday. Artemis, Arrow, Katniss, Merida, Robin Hood are some favorite characters for this reason.
  • My American Girl Dolls, Junior is custom made and looks just like me! I also have Justice who is custom and has red and blue hair, and Kaya the historical doll. I will never say no to doll sized items.
  • Anthropomorphic Animals - Especially MICE or any woodland animals! I also like these animals: Chickadees, Swans, Pegasuses
  • Slytherin, Luna Lovegood, Thestrals, Queenie Goldstein. Specifically.
  • Always Peter Pan I can never get enough! I really love collecting different versions of the book. I got a Russian version for my birthday this year. Everything and anything Peter Pan will always make me smile.
  • My favorite color is White. I also really like Grey, Tiffany Blue and Pink. I love white flowers (all of them). My wardrobe is mostly white, denim, pink and tiffany blue. I tend to like gold colored jewelry better, but own a bunch of silver too.
  • I am a snack-a-holic! I love sweets! Marshmallows are my favorite. I also love Animal Crackers dipped in frosting. I pretty much love all candy except black licorice. Also, if you haven’t tried grilled PB&J…DO IT!!
  • Things I Collect - Keys (Modern, skeleton, big, small…all keys. But actual keys, not stickers and such), Whiskies, Rooks (chess pieces), Glassybaby, Jellycats

Special interests are more than a collection or hobby they are kind of a self regulating adventure for most autistics*. They help bring order, joy, and peace to my world.

My husband and I are big TTRPG players and board games in general. We always love new games for 2 players too! Used is fine.

🛸 My husband wrote a TTRPG game. It’s called Jump Rangers and it’s about Kid Space Commandos fighting alien dinosaurs and robots, click the link and check it out!

If there is something missing that you saw before…I still like those things. I just like to change up my incoming mail once in awhile.

Please Do Not Send

🚫ALLERGIES: Walnuts (other nuts are okay)

🚫Anything musty, strong perfume/incense or smoky smelling - it kills my senses and overwhelms me and goes in the garbage.

🚫Books unless they are listed above or on my Amazon Wishlist. It isnt that I dont like books. I am just very specific about the books I keep as most of my library is digital. I will just donate them, but I would like to get swaps I want to keep.

🚫 Random toss ins not based on my profile. That is of course unless it is a random item or blind swaps or Senders choice type swaps.


julesstewart rated for FUNTASTIC Swap - PLAY on Aug 11, 2022
Comment: Amazing SWAP, I absolutely adore my Harry Lego, he's on my desk with my gnomes and Niffler. Playdoh and Sand big hits also! Hope you enjoy yours as much.
HennyPenny rated for Postcards About Me - J on Aug 8, 2022
Comment: Cool NASA pc! I have never read Peter Pan, but might give it a try :)
ensigncelery rated for PS: Postcard Swap #1 on Aug 7, 2022
Comment: This postcard is RAD 💜 I love this man o' war friend, and I love that you went through the trouble of finding a sea creature that is my favorite color. Thank you for the wonderful swap, Rook!
CookieMomster78 rated for LYLAS on Aug 4, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the happy mail, sis! 💌 I’m putting the lollipops aside for our dessert later.😋 The peeling tools will be quite handy - I’ve put one in my craft-room and our kitchen! Last, but not least, my tiny sea turtle hatchling has a twin to hang out with now! 💚😊 Love it! Thank you for always sending me such sweet mail! 🤣 🍭
Response: 😍
TrishaLSmith rated for Postcards About Me - G on Aug 3, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the Rapunzel postcard. I love it.
katjalves rated for Postcards About Me - I on Jul 29, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the fun card and info!
Comment: Hi Rook, Thank you so much for the fun flamingo hand-drawn postcard! I love all of the doodles throughout and the cute stickers that you sent as an extra. Happy Swapping! Thanks again!
DreamCloud rated for Third Annual Garden Fete on Jul 28, 2022
Comment: I am certain that Henrietta shall win a ribbon at the Fete ❤️
ScrapHappyGabi rated for Mystery Swap on Jul 27, 2022
Comment: Such a fun swap - great use of the items you were sent!! xx
squince rated for Disney Post Card Swap #1 on Jul 25, 2022
Comment: Love the card! I would love to go back to Disney someday. I only went once as a young teen!
Ramya rated for Postcards About Me - H on Jul 21, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the fun postcard and great list! I am always Hungry too:) Happy Swaps.
Tara21cd rated for Disney Post Card Swap #1 on Jul 20, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the cute Disney postcard.
24Donna rated for Lollipop Day Swap on Jul 18, 2022
Comment: Thank you! I really enjoy cinnamon and the earrings are way to cute! I don’t do coffee but my granddaughter will love them so how sweet I can share! God bless you
Mamabemus rated for Stuff the Mailbox #36 on Jul 16, 2022
Comment: love all the goodies thanks. sorry for the late rating
myancey rated for Halfway to Christmas! on Jul 16, 2022
Comment: Rook thanks. We love it have a good day
matt319 rated for Stuff the Mailbox #36 on Jul 15, 2022
Burger1girl rated for Themed Mail Art #2 on Jul 15, 2022
Comment: What a beautiful, creative and artistic envelope! I love it! Ah, wish I was at the yacht club on the pc. Gorgeous note card, I really enjoyed this swap Thank you so very much Autist. I live for the beach!
Psychopomp rated for Homemade Postcard Challenge #3 on Jul 12, 2022
Comment: Cute pupper- love his little teeth!
sndrtkt rated for Postcards About Me - F on Jul 12, 2022
Comment: I did flower too! I am forgetful also, I need write things down on a whiteboard lol
Snownrs rated for FUNTASTIC SWAPS - Summer on Jul 9, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the fun package! I love everything! I’m going to have fun using all the goodies. 😊

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ButterflyGirl85 on Aug 10, 2022:

Thank you for the birthday postcard from RAKS Only USA July wishes.

kiddomerriweather on Aug 6, 2022:

Thank you so much for the belated birthday gifts! I love the banana water bottle so much. I don't drink nearly enough water and I've already been using it today. The straw makes it easier to drink A LOT more water. The pencil pouch is so cute. I can definitely use the embroidery floss and I love the pressed Star Wars quarter! I think this is only my second pressed quarter. It was so sweet of you to think of me for my birthday. <3 (August WW)

AZmom875 on Aug 2, 2022:

Thank you for the RAK of the Wonder Woman patch.

isabellasnow on Jul 27, 2022:

Thank you so much for the vintage postcards from my AATW July wishlist!

Artistic on Jul 26, 2022:

RAKS Only Group -- A belated but heartfelt THANK YOU for the swap cards you sent for your June 2022 #5 RAK. Great selection.

bluerose3 on Jul 24, 2022:

Thank you for the postcards (5 random postcards RAK group)

AZmom875 on Jul 19, 2022:

Thank you for the July RAK of random postcards. They super useful.

middleearthtraveller on Jul 14, 2022:

Thanks for the Doctor Who items re RAKs Only! What a surprise!

lindseyjae on Jul 12, 2022:

Thanks for the postcard! I'd love to be postcard penpals with you - I will send a reply PC back soon! :-)

chimerix on Jul 10, 2022:

Thank you so much for the Dr. Who PTD labels and postcard. My DH has claimed the PC to put in his office - LOL. Thank you for sharing with us!

RAKs Only July RAK

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