Swap-bot Time: July 18, 2024 6:58 pm


Date Joined: February 14, 2020
Last Online: April 30, 2024
Birthday: December 16
Country: United States

About Me



*********UPDATE 7/1/21*********

I don’t know why I didn’t put this earlier BUT! We have moved about an hour away from our PO Box so I’m only getting the mail 1-2 times a month. We have our PO Box until September so ratings will probably be later until then. We’ll be getting a new PO Box in our city once the old one closes so I’ll be getting the mail more regularly! If you have any questions just shoot me a message 😁

*********UPDATE 3/29/21*********

I’ve just been sprung from the hospital! Haha. But on a serious note, if you are waiting on a rating or swap from me it’s going to be a bit delayed. I didn’t anticipate a hospital trip or staying!! I’ll be taking things slow for a little while but I hope to get caught up by the end of this weekend or next week at the latest. By all means, send a message if you have any questions. 💜

*********UPDATE 9/23/2020*********

Officially moving! Date is set and 10/1/2020 will be our last day in Hawaii. I hope to be back on swapbot before Halloween! Haven’t been on here much, sorry to my groups!! I will be back eventually, moving is just taking a lot of my time and energy currently. See you guys soon!

*********UPDATE 7/20/2020*********

In the process of moving!!! Okay so Covid has caused a whole bunch of issues and Hawaii is not doing a great job at handling it in regards to helping the people and/or the state economy. Our estimated time frame is mid August for moving out of state. Things are still up in the air as we are still trying to find a place to rent. I will be (unfortunately) scaling back swaps which breaks my heart. Literally this place and you all are my life savers. I love this community and creating mail/participating in swaps. I’m trying not to sign up for anything in August at this time. So if you see me taking less involvement in group swaps or if it takes a bit longer for me to reply to messages, give ratings, etc please know I am doing my best to balance everything but making sure we can get out of this failing state is my top priority. Feel free to shoot me a message if you need anything or have questions! I will respond as soon as I can 💜💜💜

*********UPDATE 5/6/2020*********

No Flaking here!!! I have noticed the mail taking longer and my mail (even outside of swapbot) is at times getting lost. If you do not receive your swap from me, please let me know! I love this community so definitely not an issue of sending, just the crazy times we live in. If time passes and still no swap, I’ll happily resend again! I also keep a log and pictures of my outgoing and incoming swaps for my own reference. Happy swapping! 💜

Hi everyone! I’m new here, I found this place through pen pals now. My name is Lilly & I recently turned 30. I am married and live with my husband and our 3 cats in Hawaii. I have a few pen pals but thought this might be something interesting to get in to.

If you ask me how “paradise” is or what it’s like to live in Hawaii I’ll give you the honest answer. It blows and I really CANNOT WAIT until hubby and I are able to get out of this burning dumpster fire.

I really love cats, cute stationery and stickers, anything “witchy”, kawaii, pastels, and various shades of grey. Oh and anything that has to do with Leonardo DiCaprio! He is my favorite actor & Titanic is seriously my all time favorite movie!!!

Favorite Books

I love YA Fiction!!! Mostly romance books and less of the sci-fy. Some of my favorites are:

Paper Towns (anything by John Green tbh)

The Tenth Circle

Me before You

Elenore and Park

Sharp Objects

The fault in our stars

The Notebook

The Reader

Memories of a Geisha


Lock and Key

Just listen


A series of unfortunate events (I loved them all)

Running with Scissors


The 50 shades series

Salem Falls

Milk and Honey

13 reasons why

There are so many more I can’t even think of, I’ll have to update this later after I check my goodreads profile lol

Favorite Television


Bobs Burgers


Hill House

The chilling adventures of Sabrina

The office

Parks and Recreation

Favorite Movies



I love you man

Step Brothers


The conjuring

Pineapple Express

Tristan + Isolde

The wolf of wall street

Revolutionary Road

The man in the iron mask

Favorite Crafts

im not really sure how to answer what my favorite crafts are. I enjoy doing DIY projects, painting, sewing, etc.

Im not sure what all would fall into the craft category haha!

I have a serious love of fabric and different ribbons. I enjoy ornate papers. I like stickers and markers. Pretty much anything metallic or glitter is right up my alley. I like most colors, pastels, grayscale, black and white, etc

I like unique designs as well as some traditional or more common designs. Not everything has to be rare!

Things I...

Like: Decorated envelopes! Coffee, Tea (no green tea or matcha), washi, stickers, paper, cats anything, Billie Eilish, anything with hearts or stars, outer space, Halloween, the office, Titanic, Leonardo DiCaprio, unique buttons, coins, note cards, there are a million things I can list here

Colors: Grey, green, black, rose gold, teal, wine, blush, most pastels, burnt orange

Collect: anything “witchy” (tarot cards, crystals, candles, ritual supplies, etc) I am currently trying to get a post card from all 50 states! (See postcard section below!) I’d love to get a blank one and a written on one from each state!! Will trade Hawaii postcards 😁 Foreign coins, used stamps, small denomination stamps (unused), makeup, books, movies, cats (lol)

Don’t have: stationery (notebook paper over here lol), stickers (I have a few but not really lol), ribbon/twine, tags, die cuts, rubber stamps (yet!), brown kraft paper, a lack of cat hair lol


I am very keen to get a postcard from all 50 states! I would love to have at least one scenic view from each BUT I am happy to just have one from each state!

I would also really like to collect some foreign postcards as well but my priority is all the states❤️

These are the post cards I have currently collected!



West Virginia

Virginia (still looking for a scenic Virginia)



New Orleans


Salem, MA (still looking for a scenic Massachusetts)



Idaho (still looking for a scenic Idaho)

Colorado (still looking for a scenic Coloraro)



Manitoba, Canada

Santorini, Greece

Tea or coffee?

Love em both so if you’re thinking of sending some feel free!

Coffee: I am not all that picky but I love a dark roast and in general just trying different coffees!

Tea: I am obsessed with clipper tea but it’s hard to find in the states! I am very intrigued to try foreign teas we can’t get here or are limited. But again I’m not all that picky! As long as it’s not green/matcha tea I will try it! I do absolutely love caramel vanilla chai!


I thought I’d add a wishlist of items here to get a feel of the type of things I like or aesthetics I go for! 😁

https://www.etsy.com/listing/921941034/the-standardsmall-tarot-clutch-astrology?ref=shophomeactive_5&frs=1 (Tarot Clutch)

Phomemo printer

Sprocket or Fuji film printer

Tarot or oracle cards (incomplete sets are fine, I’d like to use them in my creating)

Washi stickers

Metal stickers

Witchy or celestial writing paper (also cute writing paper in general- I really don’t have cute letter paper lol)

Handmade envelopes


Vinyl stickers (I like to decorate my hydroflask)



Recipes (especially those for pagan holidays!)

Gel pens

Tombow brush pens

Adult coloring sheets

Glitter and/or confetti

Envelope punch board

Wax (for sealing)

Anything LOTR

Project life cards


I wanted to add a little blurb about things I really enjoy receiving but that will be updated periodically!

Washi Tape Samples! This is one of my favorite things to receive, I love having a wide variety of Washi tapes and I find so many people have such different washis!

Quotes! I love book quotes mostly, but quotes in general are great. I especially like ones about love or that are inspiring. Bible verses are also welcome as offer these are very inspirational.

Pictures! I love to speak through pictures, each one is worth a thousand words.

Random tarot cards! I am trying to build a deck of cards from multiple decks. As I receive cards I will update here until I’ve completed the deck 💖


ldyhawke88 rated for 📚 Book page swap 📚 on Mar 30, 2024
Comment: thanks for the swap like the French page
youngsenior rated for 📚 Book page swap 📚 on Mar 27, 2024
Comment: Thank you for the pages. Your friend Joy
Comment: Thank you for the lovely envelope, I'll write back to you soon!
Comment: thanks for being my partner .
AlinaLos rated for Countdown to Christmas #20 on Dec 25, 2021
Comment: Thank you! Gosh, this envelope is soo cool!! All the insides are awesome! Merry Christmas!
ItaliaGirl863 rated for Countdown to Christmas #21 on Dec 6, 2021
Comment: Thanks so much for my Christmas goodies!
laterdayze rated for Countdown to Christmas #19 on Dec 1, 2021
Comment: Thank you, I can't wait to open later this month! :D
howdyholly rated for Welcome back Indira!!! on Nov 29, 2021
Comment: Beautiful covered bridge! I'm glad I finally got your card. Have a great day!
VaGrammy66 rated for Countdown to Christmas #16 on Nov 21, 2021
Comment: Love the pretty envelope! Can’t wait to open!
Comment: Thank you!!
Denrenn rated for Countdown to Christmas #15 on Nov 16, 2021
Comment: Thank You what a festive envy, I'm waiting to open Loved the goodies
SassyCat rated for Countdown to Christmas #12 on Nov 13, 2021
Comment: Mahalo! Looking forward to opening it in Dec!
AJ73 rated for LSRUS Travelling Postcard Round 15 on Nov 9, 2021
Comment: Thank you for the Postcards. Setting up to send in the next Round. I appreciate the extra card.
Denrenn rated for Countdown to Christmas #13 on Nov 9, 2021
Comment: Thank you, Loved the envy. Loved the goodies. Have a Merry christmas
Fabriqueen rated for Countdown to Christmas #11 on Nov 8, 2021
Comment: Thank you so much! I love the envelope!! I'm adding it to my ones to open in December. Have a wonderful day! Hugs, Diane
mcovey rated for LSRUS Travelling Postcard Round 14 on Nov 1, 2021
Comment: Thanks for pc’s to send on and extras
RockyBeach rated for SSM: Blackout poetry piece #4 on Oct 9, 2021
Comment: Thank you for the creepy poem, it arrived well! :)
Response: Lol! I’m glad I nailed the creepy vibe for October! 🧡
coffeef1rst rated for HAPPY HALLOWEEN CARD on Sep 28, 2021
Comment: Thank you for the cute card and goodies. My family adopted a black/smokey cat from the shelter in June so I've been grabbing cute Halloween cards with black cats too:)
bringitb rated for HAPPY HALLOWEEN CARD on Sep 27, 2021
Comment: Your adorable lantern card arrived today—thank you! You’re right, it’s too cute! =) Appreciate the washi you’ve included as well. Both are new samples for me, so I appreciate it!

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esmy77 on Apr 26, 2022:

thank you for the lovely comment, I entered your swap because I was so touched by the fact that you wanted your mom to receive Mother's Day cards, you are a wonderful daughter! thank you for hosting this super cute swap!

bordercolliemom59 on Aug 9, 2021:

hey there got your letter did not know you moved to florida . I m moving to st petersburg florida when we retire in 5 yrs . or when my hubs retires thanks

heliogal on Aug 6, 2021:

Wow!!! I just loved receiving your magickal happy mail from the pagan/wiccan pay it forward tag! I love having the correspondences in your pretty handwriting and the moon and star glitter was so Cool and the fun washi Thank you for tagging me and I thank you for sending me awesome mail!!!

heliogal on Aug 2, 2021:

Lilly I just received your wonderful thank you note in that beautifully decorated envie and it made my day!! Thank you so much <3 <3 <3

OrigamiGrace on Jul 20, 2021:


Hope you are having a great day!
Just popping in to say hi!!

cmmaldonado on Mar 11, 2021:

ScrapHappyGabi on Mar 11, 2021:

LSRUS: In Memory of My Mother

From: @ScrapHappyGabi

simplykaren on Dec 15, 2020:

thank you

Thank you for your sympathy!♥

EverydayAngels on Aug 5, 2020:

Thank you, thank you, thank you for all the June LOVE snail mail and goodies! YOU are amazing. The last envelope took a month in the slow mail but was so beautifully done and full of joy. I really appreciate all the attention and detail and thought you put into making me smile. Best of luck with your move and blessings to you.

kssunlover1947 on Jun 19, 2020:

I received your Thank you card and extras today and I really liked everything. The cute card looks so like a meal I would have (and do when I go out to eat, which I haven't really did since February except fast food drive through). So I want that say thank you and welcome to swap-bot.

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