O50&P A postcard with a note

Send a postcard to your partner with a short note on the back. You can talk about anything, your day, your dreams, your past, your hobbies, you get the idea.

All postcards must be storebought/professionally printed. NO handmade postcards no free or ad cards unless your partner specifically enjoys those kinds of cards (ask BEFORE sending)

Also, check profiles for special sending preference IE I do not like stickers on my postcards.

No recent/unaddressed 3's or 1's. No one listed as a problem swapper. Newbies with well filled out profiles

I will angel if needed after you contact the person and try to work something out and they have been rated a 1.

Please remember to rate your partner. If you receive any postcard within swap rules, it is a 5 even if you do not like the postcard. Give your partner time to send your card (Malaysia often takes 2 months to get to you) AND contact them before rating a 3 or 1 to allow the person to fix any problems that may arise. Hearts are yours to give or not give as you see fit. Treat your partner as you would wish to be treated.

3's suck. They lower your score, prevent a swapper from joining swaps and in many cases unnecessarily hurt people. If you feel you need to rate a 3 please contact the swapper first.

Say noooooooooo to these 3's: The 3 given by the double profiler whos gone the next day, the moody 3, I'm making up my own rules 3, the vindictive 3, I got-a-3-you're-getting-a 3, the angry 3, the made up 3, I-don't-care-what-the-rules-are 3, you-sent-one-day-late-and-didn't-tell-me-3, I'm-sending-your-postcard-off-to-the-crime-lab-3.