Response: Tia, this swap was more difficult than I thought it would be. Each time I began to write it was just too emotionally draining on me. I have recently been diagnosed with ulcers and am trying to "take care of myself instead of always everyone else"...as the doctors say. I will send you the letter by next week. :) (By the way...I have never received anything from my partner either. As the host, can you check on it?) Thanks.